1.12.2009

Things I Love: 101 Cookbooks
























I am in awe of 101 Cookbooks!  A beautiful site that makes me want to try new food AND attempt cooking!  Now that's a feat.  There's informative writing, a healthy focus, a varied collection of recipes...
























...and how could you resist this luscious photography?




















 

1.10.2009

Money Money Money

If one of your New Years resolutions (or general goals) is to get a handle on your money (I know it's something I'm working at), you might want to check out Suze Orman's new book, Action Plan. I haven't read much of her stuff, but she seems popular and she's offering her new book for free download until 1/15 - get it here.

Along the same lines, check out SavvySugar's two part series on getting your credit under control: Part I, Part II.

MakeZine's Evolution of the Drink flowchart (who doesn't love a flow chart?).

The sometimes unreliable Corporette came through this week with a helpful article about personalizing your office.  It's targeted at women (as is the site), but I think it's useful for everyone whose office dwelling.  (Hey, at this point if you are lucky enough to have an office, you should do everything possible to keep it...)

An intro to the women of Mad Men, from the ladies at Bitch Magazine.  Can't wait to get sucked back into the Draper universe!

Sarah Haskins is back with more awesome hilarity!  From Jezebel: "In the latest episode of Target: Women, Sarah Haskins muses, Where can we find an array of tips on diet and exercise? Oh that's right: Everywhere."

A site I'm appreciating recently: Girl Meets Business.  While I'm not really at the place (yet?) to think about "personal branding," I found their advice about first impressions, for example, to be straightforward and helpful, without being condescending.

I've loved Car Talk ever since my mom listened to it on the radio (probably because she missed those Baw-ston accents) when I was growing up....and hearing stuff like this makes me love those guys even more!  "Car Talk" Guy Ray Magliozzi Favors 50-Cent National Gas Tax":
This week on the Bottom Line podcast: Ray Magliozzi, on why he supports a 50-cent national gas tax: "We would want to discourage people," Ray says, "who had no good reason to drive a pick-up truck that got 11 miles per gallon just because they wanted to commute back and forth from Home Depot just to buy plants."
Here's another article from my traveling journalist pal, Maggie, "Youth Demand Transparency as El Salvador Prepares Municipal and Legislative Elections." Check it out! Here is an excerpt: 
On January 18, 2009, El Salvador will hold its sixth municipal and legislative elections since the 1992 signing of the Peace Accords. This year national politicians and international officials are aiming for the most transparent and clean to date, but popular sectors criticize the electoral system and predict that past problems are likely to occur again. A September 2008 poll executed by the University Institute of Public Opinion at Central American University José Simeon Cañas (IUDOP) found that 55% of those surveyed believe there will be fraud in January’s election.

1.09.2009

News from South Africa

"The community may wish to know that on December 31, 2008, South Africa's President Kgalema Motlanthe appointed Edwin Cameron to serve on the Constitutional Court, filling a vacancy left by the retirement of Justice Tholekile Madala. Justice Cameron previously sat as a judge of the Supreme Court of Appeal. Cameron had a long, distinguished, and very brave career as a human rights lawyer during the apartheid era. He is the only public official in South Africa living openly with HIV/AIDS and is probably the only openly gay governmental official in all of Africa. In recent years, he has been in the forefront of the struggle against AIDS-denialism even while serving as a judge. His appointment to the Constitutional Court is a great event for South Africa and a great event for all who care about social justice and social transformation through law."  - Prof. Karl Klare 

Friday Web Round-Up

NYTimes: "As His Inmates Grew Thinner, a Sheriff’s Wallet Grew Fatter": "The prisoners in the Morgan County jail here were always hungry. The sheriff, meanwhile, was getting a little richer. Alabama law allowed it: the chief lawman could go light on prisoners’ meals and pocket the leftover change. And that is just what the sheriff, Greg Bartlett, did, to the tune of $212,000 over the last three years, despite a state food allowance of only $1.75 per prisoner per day."

Frommers: "Pasadena" (a city that will always have a spot in my heart): "Some Pasadena locals like to say that their town and Los Angeles were about the same size years ago, but that their place spent time growing gracefully while the Angelinos let their city mature without any wisdom into the sprawling mess it is now considered to be. Pasadenans have long considered themselves a cut above the hurly burly in LA, the smaller city's manicured lawns, imposing but dignified residences and quiet air a pleasing (to them) contrast to the bigger city's vulgar noise and energy."

NYTimes: "A Lifestyle Distinct: The Muxe of Mexico" (I thought this was a really interesting article when I read it, but I forgot to post it until now): "Acceptance of a child who feels he is a muxe is not unanimous; some parents force such children to fend for themselves. But the far more common sentiment appears to be that of a woman who takes care of her grandson, Carmelo, 13.
'It is how God sent him,' she said."

As a chronic over-sharer I both shuddered at the all-too-realness of this post, as well as (oddly) mourning a time of greater decorum.  Jezebel: "Tell Me More!  Why Do We Overshare?"  In some ways it does seem crass that people (including myself) will talk about nearly anything and everything only minutes after meeting someone.  On the other hand, though, I have always looked at such sharing as a way of saying "hey, I'm only human, I'm not pretending to be anything other than the flawed person that I am."  Also, I tend to befriend people who are similar oversharers.  Unfortunately, I have also found myself feeling resentful at people who are not so quick to share - which is probably not fair, and betrays my desire for instant approval (if you share with me, that means you like me....right?)

A pet peeve of mine is people who attended law school (or are looking to attend law school) because they "don't know what else to do." In my opinion, law school is way too expensive, time consuming, and downright HARD to do on such a whim. Plus, as we are all seeing, it doesn't guarantee employment! I would guess the same is true with many other graduate programs, so I hope people think twice before taking the recession as a sign it's time to rack up student loans...

Last night I got around to reading Toobin's New Yorker profile of Barney Frank. Not particularly earth shattering, but interesting. Frank's reputation for quick wit certaintly seems to be well deserved! The profile was also given props on a website that is a new favorite of mine for LGBTQ news, The Bilerico Project. Frank (photo, left) offers us a hopeful outlook for the next wave of change:
"We're going to do three things in Congress," he told me. "First, a hate-crimes bill--that shouldn't be too hard. Next, employment discrimination. We almost got that through before, but now we can win even if we add transgender protections, which we are going to do. And finally, after the troops get home from Iraq, gays in the military. The time has come."

And why not start the year by resolving to make 5 simple changes to become greener?  As far as small actions and big impact go, these are pretty great.

Coming soon: a joint GoogleReader review/rave from Lipstick Lobbyist and I! She claims it can be a great tool for work..I claim it can be a lot of fun!

Love/Hate

For whatever reason, I really LOVE this Max Azria ad of Nastia Liukin!  My love is sort of random, since I usually don't really care about fashion advertising, I don't know anything about Max Azria's designs, and I didn't watch Liukin at the Olympics.  I guess maybe it's just nice to see some mainstream fashion photography/advertisement with genuine movement and spontaneity, that actually looks like a celebration of the human body instead of a confinement of it.

On the HATE side, I am not a fan of this alleged new trend of flat ankle boots.  Ugly to the max.  Unfortunately, it probably will catch on since it does look like an extension of recent 80's fashion comebacks.  I won't be thrilled to see these on the feet of the 100's of Berkeley Music students streaming by me on their way to Urban Outfitters this spring.

The Shooting of Oscar Grant

Sometimes it seems incongruous to switch back and forth between fashion and politics to me, but that's, for better or worse, sort of how I go through the day. I also don't think I could focus solely on one or the other. Sometimes the actions of people, whether individuals or countries, are simply too painful.  In addition to the horrible killing going on in Gaza, this week has also seen an incredibly upsetting tradgedy in Oakland, and its understandable aftermath. On New Year’s morning, San Francisco BART police officer dragged a few young men off a train. An officer then proceeded to shoot Oscar Grant (who may or may not have been one of the men taken off the train) with a gunshot through the back, while he was restrained and lying face-down on the ground.  The effects of the shooting continue to ripple through Oakland and the Bay Area, in the form of protests, anger, and mourning.  Here are excerpts from some of the coverage:

Feministe's "Execution Style": "I think you should watch the videos, if you think you can handle it. They made me want to throw up, made me feel dizzy and aching, but they’re important. If bystanders hadn’t been leaning out of their trains with cellphone cameras, this incident might have passed largely unnoticed. According to witnesses, the BART police reacted immediately by confiscating cameras and phones in the name of “evidence.” The two videos that have surfaced were apparently taken by people who managed to keep their phones because the train started moving before the cops could get them."

NPR's "Oakland Transit Shooting Sparks Riot" (audio): "The fatal shooting of an unarmed man by a police officer on a Bay Area Rapid Transit train is raising tensions in Oakland, Calif. On Wednesday night, a riot followed a peaceful demonstration as protesters set dumpsters on fire and broke windows."

NYTimes' "Oakland Simmers After a Night of Violence": "The shooting is just the latest incident in a historically tense relationship between Oakland’s black community and law enforcement, including a corruption case known as the Riders case in which a group of Oakland police officers were accused of abusing and falsely accusing suspects. Three of the officers were acquitted but the incident nevertheless damaged the department’s reputation . . .

'The murder of Oscar Grant III was a tragedy and not the first tragedy suffered on the streets of Oakland,' said Jakada Imani, executive director of the Ella Baker Center for Human Rights, who called the protests a tipping point 'for a community that has been struggling and suffering for decades.'

On Wednesday, several protesters lay prone in front of police, hands behind their backs, saying, 'I am Oscar Grant.'"

1.08.2009

All That Glitters

Yesterday Lipstick Lobbyist and I were discussing the post on Corporette about young women and pearl necklaces. As a Corporette reader wrote in (and unbeknownst to me), apparently there are lots of "rules" corresponding to your age and the size of pearls deemed appropriate to wear:
As a late graduation present, I was considering asking my folks for a classic strand of pearls. This turned out to be more complicated than I had thought. Is it (still) true that younger women shouldn’t aspire to larger pearls? I don’t want to buy a strand that will look silly when I’m in my 30s and 40s — what’s the largest I can get away with in my 20s?
As two ladies who like to think of themselves as a little bit funky and fashion forward (LL has an impressive knack for the vintage and for shoes, whereas I like to think I have a little rock and roll flair), trapped in the not always so fashion forward city of Boston, we definitely had some thoughts on the matter. Bottom line, we were both wary of traditional pearl necklaces. The reliable accessory of the working "girl," both LL and I felt these were a little too staid for our appearances, along the lines of, for instance, cable knit sweaters. However, we each had our exceptions - LL thought certain vintage necklaces were noticeably fake enough to not even count as pearls, meanwhile I thought an over-sized fake-pearl necklace could be a good combo of tradition and a little flashy (the workplace fashion goal I aim for). Getting dressed this morning I realized I sometimes rely on another plan, which is the vintage costume jewelry gold ball necklace I recently inherited from my grandmother (via my mother). It's large enough to not come off as dainty but not so large as to be inappropriate for day time work (see left). Or so I hope.  The Morocco necklace I wrote about yesterday would be another great alternative (see below).

ps - I have been reading more of that pearl website and no wonder that woman was confused!  There are all kinds of crazy "rules" and descriptions, alternately bizarre and entertaining.  For instance, "Generally for older women, 45 years and up or extremely successful 30s. The Lamborghini of pearls. Absolutely majestic, fit for a queen. The rarest size of all, virtually impossible to get -- Japanese cultured pearls simply don't grow any larger than this. A guaranteed grand slam for Mother's Day, Christmas or any event for the elegant elderly woman. Made most famous by Barbara Bush who was often seen with her pearls of this size coiled around her neck. Usually purchased as a double strand (36 inches)." Obviously a lot of this is just the pearl industry trying to sell more product, but it's still pretty wild....

1.07.2009

The Happiness Project

One of my new favorite websites - and perfectly timed for the New Years Resolution season - is The Happiness Project.  I am not ashamed  (or at least only slightly ashamed) to convey that I read about it in O Magazine.  That's right, Oprah's magazine, which features her (sometimes two of her) on every cover.  While I'm not an Oprah show watcher or book club follower, I am a huge fan of the magazine.  It is perhaps the only (or one of the only) magazines aimed at women that has ladies in it of all shapes and sizes and ages, combines fashion info with legit interviews and book reviews, and isn't afraid to mix in some self-improvement/help advice as well as financial tips.  Anyways, so one of my recent O Magazine discoveries is The Happiness Project (yet another website on its way to becoming a book).  The sites proprietor (is that the right title?) undertook a year devoted to learning about happiness - reading self-help books and gathering advice from all corners (uh, basically sounds like my dream job, by the way....maybe she needs a 20-something co-author for the sequel?)  She has collected some of her findings on the site, and I've recently found it a great place for some new ideas or approaches to things.  For instance, today she had an article on dealing with criticism - I am not good at taking criticism and never have been.  So I definitely took the tips to heart.  My only wish?  That she had a different photo of her on the page!  It is the least happy or comfortable looking headshot I've seen in a while!

(ps - The photo attached to the post is unrelated....except for the fact that it made me happy!)

She's Crafty

My wonderful friend Mo (long time, no see!) has been handcrafting beaded jewelry for years and has finally decided to make it available online at her Etsy store, MandG.  As she says, her simple but bold designs will liven up even the most Plain Jane (although I disagree with her self-assessment as plain).  I am particularly smitten with the Morocco necklace (left) - who needs basic pearls when you can have gumball like color?  (Unfortunately someone also has great taste and snapped that necklace up!).  Check out MandG and support a great artist, lady, and new mama.

Things I Love....combined!

It's almost like Design*Sponge felt my love from South Beach and responded in kind....check out part 1 of their design guide to Miami:

Not only does the author (I almost wrote "other" which makes me feel like I'm back in an undergrad critical reading course....) point out some great places, but she also has some smart observations about Miami.  Even in my short time here I've found it to be a fascinating and complex city that goes far beyond the rampant stereotypes about beaches, fake boobs, and men in white suits.

12.16.2008

Things I Love: London Shop Fronts

Just found the London Shop Fronts site (via Design*Sponge) - it's just what it sounds like and it's beautiful!


































12.15.2008

Hook Up

Obviously I've been a neglectful blogger.... I guess that comes along with the move, new job, and, most importantly, the holiday season.  I do love the holidays.  This has been my first holiday season as a Miami resident, and I'm so excited that I get to have both the Florida experience and the family Oregon experience.  We head west on Monday and I'm so excited!  As usual, I think I've gone overboard with stocking stuffers (many of which I anticipate not fitting into stockings) but I can't help it!  Buying gifts for those I  love is one of my favorite activities.  OK, and I've bought a few things for my self as well....bad Shorty, bad!

I thought this was really interesting: Obama logo ideas that weren't chosen.

A friend of mine from OR (now another Boston resident!) is studying and working towards the goal of being the coolest high school librarian ever.  And this is her blog!  Reading it makes me miss all the favorite books  of my childhood and adolescent, and makes me jealous of all the kids that will benefit from having her around.  Check out Mad Snarky Librarian.

In looking for different perspectives on the "Miami experience" I came across Blogging Black Miami.  So far it's been a great source of news and info - I welcome any suggestions about other sources for learning about what's going on in Miami.

This article is getting a lot of discussion amongst both my friends and the news/blog media: The Demise of Dating.  I feel torn.  In some ways, I agree with the columnist that there isn't much dating (i.e. hanging out before becoming physically intimate with someone) going on, and that some things have been lost as a result - namely, monogamy.  I think more people are inclined to hook up with a variety of people at once before eventually - if ever - settling into a relationship with one of them.  This is in contrast to dating a few people without being physically intimate, and then choosing one of them to date seriously.  Also, I have heard absolute horror stories from my single friends - both female and male - about the lack of interest amongst potential partners in even having dinner or getting together one-on-one.  Everyone seems to want the safety of hanging out in a group, avoiding the word "date," and playing hard to get until neither person can even utter the words "Can I call you sometime?"

However, I also think this is the sort of article that gets written every 5 years, bemoaning "kids these days," and underestimating the emotional complexity of young people.  Also, while Mr. Blow's aim in looking at the gender iniquity is admirable, his conclusion is also overly simplistic.  He writes:
Girls get tired of hooking up because they want it to lead to a relationship (the guys don’t), and, as they get older, they start to realize that it’s not a good way to find a spouse. 
There are plenty of women who are happy with hooking up and are not looking for a relationship - we don't come out of the womb dreaming of a DeBeers ad-like proposal - and plenty of men who want to date as well.  This "women want a boyfriend, men want booty" is a pretty old paradigm and played out by now.   Also, there are plenty of people (and I'm sure there were in the 1960's and every other decade) who start dating via "hook up" and end up in a serious relationship with that person (disclaimer: one of them may be writing this blog).  It's not always so black and white as Mr. Blow suggests.  

Bottom line, dating is awkward, so is "hooking up," and relationships are always going to be complicated.  I think a better way to talk to young people about their sexual relationships would be to steer clear of sweeping generalizations that don't give them credit for emotional depth and be honest about the challenges and benefits of romantic relationships - regardless of what you call them. 

Final note: the best thing about The Sartorialist is that it allows me to people watch, from the comfort of my desk.  (See his Wikipedia entry!)  Worst part?  Then I look down at my own outfits and feel ashamed.  Seriously, who ARE these people?  Oh right, New Yorkers...

Note: what is a sartorialist?  Someone interested in sartorialism, of course.  Sartorialism = an interest in matters of or relating to the tailoring of clothing.  Now you know.

12.09.2008

Toys

I am in love with the Acorn Toy Shop!  How can you resist?  I'd love to have their Orca wall hanging in my house or office (also I would love to have an office...):













And check out their awesome mobiles (I do love me a mobile):













These lux Rabbit bookends are gorgeous:













And this terrier pillow is great:















Also check out: Core 77 is pretty cool design site and their 77 Design Gifts Under $77 is a great introduction to their style.

12.08.2008

Some Sort of Seasonal

Today's Daily Heller gave me a heads up to the White House's collection of holiday cards, now viewable online.  How can you not try to read into each card something about the President's administration, or the political climate at the time?  Unfortunately, most of them are pretty ugly, design-wise (except for maybe the retro appeal of the simpler designs):

Below: Bush Jr.  (2001)


























Below: JFK (1961)























Below: Bush Sr. (1991)

12.04.2008

Things I Love: Miami

After two weeks here, I think I can finally say I am starting to love Miami.  I know it's still the honeymoon period, but I HAVE been visiting sporadically for the last few years, so it's not totally out of the blue...Why?  Well, I guess it's a combination of things - could be the good food, the amazing weather, the multicultural/global presence, and especially the fact that there is SO much going on.  It's like a combination of the last two places I've lived in that it's a major city (Boston) but also people are outside and social (Old San Juan).  Unfortunately I left my digital camera in Boston and so I'm stranded down here with just my cell!















[Art Basel, South Beach, Miami, 2008]  Last night, thanks to the lovely Roxy, I went to a few Art Basel events - the people watching (one of my all time favorite activities) was incredible. Maybe the best people watching ever, seriously.  Models with old men, amazingly posh art scene people that looked like caricatures of themselves, wanna be rock stars, overly Botoxed socialites....it was great.  Today is the start of the actual festival so I think this weekend will be packed - but entertaining - on Miami Beach.















[Miami Art Museum Book Fair, Downtown Miami, 2008]  Today after work we went over to the Miami Art Museum (only a few blocks away from our offices) where they were having a huge book fair.  Because it's Miami (and Art Basel weekend) of course they had to combine the book fair with a bar, live music, and this amazing, huge Jeff Koons rabbit!   It's just there for Art Basel and apparently tomorrow they are doing a light installation on the side of my office building!

Don't get me wrong, there are things about Miami that drive me crazy (the conservative political climate, the car culture, the urban sprawl....) but for now, I'm just gonna enjoy the honeymoon.

12.03.2008

Finally, Proof That I Live In Miami!

So, under the heading Things I [Hope To] Love is ART BASEL! The annual event is routinely described (in Miami at least...) as "the most important art show in the United States":

As the sister event of Switzerland's Art Basel, the most prestigious art show worldwide for the past 39 years, Art Basel Miami Beach combines an international selection of top galleries with an exciting program of special exhibitions, parties and crossover events featuring music, film, architecture and design. Exhibition sites are located in the city's beautiful Art Deco District, within walking distance of the beach and many hotels.
The week long party kicks off tonight...and yours truly (thanks to the kindness of friends) will be attending the event at the Miami Convention Center! As some have noted, this years craptastical (I believe that is a real business term) economy may lead the party to be slightly more subdued than in previous years, but if there is one thing I have learned so far in Miami, you should never count on subdued. I'll even try to take photos tonight, like a good blogger....

12.02.2008

Misunderstanding and Racism Lead to Initiative's Failure in Florida




















I know this isn't the most up-to-the minute news, but I am trying to get caught up on Florida politics and found this article to be indicative of race relations and the state of immigration in the United States. Can all those commentators talking about the "post-race" world post-Obama pipe down already? From the NYTimes, "In Florida, an Initiative Intended to End Bias Is Killed":

An obscure ballot initiative in Florida intended to end a legacy of bias against Asian-Americans was defeated Tuesday, apparently because voters incorrectly assumed it would prevent illegal immigrants from owning property.

Had it passed, the initiative, known as Amendment No. 1, would have removed from the state’s Constitution language adopted in 1926 allowing the Legislature to prohibit foreigners who were barred from citizenship — Asian-Americans at the time — from owning land.

No such legislation was ever enacted here, and every other state that had such laws has scrapped them on grounds of equal protection. But on Tuesday, Florida’s effort to delete the provision went down, with 52 percent voting “no” and 48 percent voting “yes.”

Immigrant advocates said they were stunned. “It’s terribly disappointing,” said Cheryl Little, executive director of the Florida Immigrant Advocacy Center. “At a time when our country has turned away from a history of racism, we have left a racist and anti-immigrant provision in Florida’s Constitution.”

...[The Ballot] simply asked voters if they were willing to delete “provisions authorizing the Legislature to regulate or prohibit the ownership, inheritance, disposition and possession of real property by aliens ineligible for citizenship.”

Steve Geller, a former state senator who worked to get the initiative on the ballot, said Florida election rules only allowed a description of 75 words, and required that the language of the old provision — “aliens ineligible for citizenship” — be included. As a result, he said, “a lot of people thought it had to do with illegal aliens, and it had nothing to do with illegal aliens.”

In fact, some organizations opposing illegal immigration latched onto the provision and advised people to vote no. On the Web site of one group, Americans for Legal Immigration, a member wrote that it should be left standing because “ ‘illegal aliens’ should not have ‘rights’ like U.S. citizens have. The only right they should have is deportation!”

...Ms. Tang, 47, who came to the United States from Macao in 1978, said that next time would be different. She said she hoped to put the initiative on the ballot again as soon as possible.

“We’ve learned,” she said. “From here on, we will have to get together to raise some funds to get information to the communities.”


11.27.2008

Treats from the Southwest

Boyfriend recently made a trip out to the Southwest and raved about how much he loved Santa Fe and the area in general.  Mooching off of his enthusiasm and remembering my own love for the area, I poked around online and found a plethora of treats.


















Working out of Albuquerque, artist Lex's Etsy shop, Gjurasic Park, is a great introduction to her work with Kokeshi, something I hadn't heard of before.  I love the bold colors and strong designs.  Check out her blog for more info and artwork.












I actually stumbled upon Design Warehouse without realizing it was yet another Southwest discovery (they're based in Santa Fe).   They have a great collection of everyday design, from the pricey to the affordable (also they are having a sale on lighting through the end of November!).   I like the Farmer's Market Calendar, the Magnetic Organs, and the Stuck Up Magnets, for example.  Push-Up Preston (above) was another winner.
















Gridskipper relays the excellent news that getting to and from Santa Fe and Albuquerque has just gotten easier: "Come the fall, Santa Fe gets its first commercial jet service, not to mention Rail Runner Express will soon offer high-speed train service from Albuquerque. It’s good timing, considering Santa Fe currently houses a burgeoning art scene - epitomized by its 7th annual biennial and the Santa Fe Opera’s renowned summer festival (now in full swing) – and, as of August 1st, will welcome a new Auberge Resorts retreat, Encantado." (from Globarati).

11.26.2008

Crafts!

As I think I've mentioned, I have a new found desire to refurbish some pieces of furniture. This is largely due to the fact that I am actually planning to be in one place for more than three months.  Anyways, here is my first project!  I found this little bedside table in a thrift store here on the beach and snapped it up for $10.  Now, I just have to decide how to paint it!  I want something bold (I'm sick of the pastels all over South Beach and the general blandness of most modern decors...I want bright and mismatched and lived in, more so than beige and linen and coordinated).  I think I've narrowed it down to three choices: hot pink, silver or gold....Thoughts?


 

11.25.2008

Things I Love: Fitzsu

Just discovered Fitzsu and it's great!  Here are some of my favorite finds: